The number of decisions on your plate before getting married is enough to make most couples’ heads swim! Whether it’s choosing which vendors to hire or making nitty-gritty decisions like setting the head table vs. sweetheart table debate, the overwhelm is real. If you’re considering your reception layout, the latter may have already begun to puzzle you. What is a head table, anyway? And will a sweetheart table provide the quality time together you’re craving—or will it just make you feel like you’re under a microscope? Today, we’re here to make your decision easier! We’ll lay out the pros and cons of each seating arrangement so you can make the best choice for your wedding day. Head Table vs. Sweetheart TableIt’s helpful to define these types of tables before deciding between them! A head table is a long table that seats you and your entire wedding party, usually at the focal point of the reception. Conversely, a sweetheart table is a smaller round or rectangular table that seats you and your spouse. Like a head table, most layouts position the sweetheart table at the head of the reception so every guest can see the newlyweds. Benefits of a Head TableSome couples prefer to be surrounded by their loved ones all day, especially those close friends they’ve selected as part of their wedding party. For these couples, a head table is the perfect choice! It allows proximity to your loved ones and honors them by placing them with you at the head of the reception. Furthermore, a head table may help you feel more connected to your guests since you aren’t seated separately from them, as with a sweetheart table. In short, the benefits of a head table are:
However, some couples may feel they’re losing out on quality time with their new spouse by choosing a head table. Benefits of a Sweetheart TableFor couples who want their wedding day to prioritize their love story, a sweetheart table offers the perfect opportunity to unwind and share a private conversation. And since it’s just the two of you, eating may be easier—no small matter since many brides and grooms barely manage to eat anything amid the wedding day hustle and bustle! A sweetheart table also permits your wedding party to sit with their significant others or families and mingle with other guests. In short, the benefits of a sweetheart table are:
However, some couples may feel like a sweetheart table puts them “on display” and prefer to relax from being in the spotlight all day by choosing a head table instead. Ultimately, there’s no “right” answer to the head table vs. sweetheart table question. There’s only what’s best for you, your soon-to-be spouse, and your unique situation! If you’ve been struggling to decide, we hope this post has given you some clarity. One of the most commonly addressed (and divisive!) wedding day debates is whether or not to do a first look. We outline the trends’ benefits and drawbacks so you and your partner can find your preference in this post. Vendors:The parent/child dances are one of the most heartwarming parts of any wedding day! As wedding planners, we’re still huge fans of this tradition. However, choosing a song to dance to can be difficult. Thankfully, there are a few tried-and-true tunes that couples and their parents have been turning to for decades! Stick around for a list of popular parent dance songs and our guidance for choosing the perfect one. Most Popular Parent Dance SongsFather of the Bride
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How to Choose a Parent/Child Dance SongWhen choosing a song to dance to, listen closely to the lyrics. You don’t want a sad song playing during this special moment! Similarly, avoid picking a song with overly romantic connotations (awkward!). The ideal parent/child dance song has meaningful lyrics, often with a nostalgic feel or well wishes for the child. While this may seem like tricky criteria, you aren’t alone in selecting a song. Ask your parent what they think! Is there an artist you’ve always enjoyed listening to together or a melody that holds a special meaning for both of you? It just might make the perfect choice for your dance. With whatever song you choose, be open to fading it about a minute and a half in (so, don’t choose a song that you only like for the ending!). Trust us: for your first dance and your parent/child dances, you won’t want to be up there with all eyes on you for much longer. After that point, you’ll likely lose your guests’ attention too.Your DJ can help you cut your song of choice into the perfect length without sacrificing your favorite parts. Do you want to include both your parents in your wedding more prominently? While the parent/child dance is the best-known way, it isn’t the only one (and it sadly excludes one parent). Recently, we joined other top wedding planners to give our advice for honoring your parents on your special day. To learn more, head to the feature on Everyday Bride! Vendors:Are you tying the knot in the Mile-High City? These four downtown Denver wedding venues are unbeatable for style, service, and proximity to the top attractions. As Colorado wedding planners, we’ve been honored to work at Denver’s hottest venues and locales throughout the Front Range. Keep reading to discover our favorites and find your perfect fit! Top Downtown Denver Wedding VenuesThe Oxford HotelThe historic Oxford Hotel is a downtown Denver landmark. It has welcomed guests since 1891 to its convenient location within walking distance of Union Station, 16th Street Mall, and Larimer Square! The hotel’s classical décor, housed in a quaint brick building, and unparalleled service whisk you away into the past. It’s the perfect venue for a timeless wedding infused with old-world charm. The hotel has hosted weddings for over a century and has an in-house team of coordinators ready to bring your dream wedding to life. You can choose from three in-house venues, the Grand Ballroom, Oxford Theater, and Sage Room, ready to host everything from a majestic ballroom affair to an intimate soirée. Moreover, you can host your wedding guests at the hotel in its luxurious rooms and suites, ensuring a simple, stress-free planning experience. Parlur DenverLocated in Denver’s famed 16th Street Mall, Parlur blends elegance and comfort to form the ultimate private event space. With hardwood floors and crystalline chandeliers hanging from wood-beamed ceilings, Parlur is warm and sophisticated but with plenty of flexibility to make it your own. Whether you host an upscale affair or a down-to-earth party, it’s the perfect place to gather with loved ones. Parlur boasts over 7,000 square feet of space and can accommodate up to 750(!) reception guests. So, if you’ve always dreamed of an over-the-top wedding celebrating with everyone you know, this is your perfect venue! However, Parlur also has a unique, intimate atmosphere intended to evoke the feeling of gathering at home. It’s equally suitable for hosting a micro-wedding, engagement party, or rehearsal dinner. IronworksFor an industrial-chic downtown Denver wedding, look no further than Ironworks! This historic venue in the heart of Denver used to be a steel mill and is now a thriving private event space. With brick walls, an ornate staircase, and a one-of-a-kind embossed tin ceiling, it’s undeniably elegant with a dash of urban cool. Plus, there’s over 6,900 feet of space for hosting a wedding of any size. Several distinct spaces comprise Ironworks, including a large banquet hall, mezzanine (perfect for photos!), VIP room, full bar, and kitchen. The floor plan is open to allow guests to flow easily from one space to another. In addition, the patio on the venue’s east side can accommodate up to 40 guests for an outdoor ceremony or cocktail hour overlooking downtown Denver! Clock TowerYou’ll enjoy a birds-eye view of the Mile-High City at Clock Tower, an elegant, cosmopolitan wedding venue atop the historic Daniels & Fisher Tower. The tower’s top five floors comprise this unique venue connected by staircases. Two floors boast a wrap-around balcony, providing a 360° view of Denver and the Rocky Mountains! Appointed with modern décor throughout, it’s a venue that truly celebrates the city. Clock Tower is the perfect venue for an intimate wedding. It can accommodate up to 50 guests for a ceremony and up to 75 for a reception. Moreover, it’s ideal for busy couples who don’t want to spend significant time planning their wedding. The venue owners have embraced a “turnkey” approach, so your venue rental also includes tables, chairs, black linens, floral décor, and candles. Plan Your Downtown Denver WeddingIf one of these downtown Denver wedding venues speaks to you, Sapphire Celebrations would love to assist you with planning your event! Submit an inquiry with your wedding details, and we’ll schedule a complimentary discovery call to assess if we’re a good fit. Are you planning a Denver destination wedding? Make the most of your and your guests’ experience with our guide to the city’s top attractions. Vendors: |
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